If you want to pick up older women, you have to know how they think. These are women looking to find love and affection for various reasons, but they have two things in common: excess baggage and the secret need to feel young again.
Let’s describe the types of older women you are likely to meet.
• She could be a divorcee and looking for a virile younger guy to date
• She could be the perennially single woman who abhors commitment and loves to play the field
• She could be the woman who is very cautious about love, and has never had a serious relationship before because of that attitude towards men.
• She could be the cougar who only dates younger men.
To be able to pick up older women, you must be sensitive enough to understand where she’s coming from. Don’t bring up children until she does, and for your sake, don’t ask how old she is during your first meeting. Also, unless she’s really open about it (she touches you in a lingering manner), don’t mention sex.
When trying to pick up older women, you must be careful with the topics you discuss. So, what topics CAN you discuss? Here are 2 of the things you can incorporate in your initial conversation.
1. Her career – Single women are usually empowered, and this means having a career she’s proud of and being financially independent. Ask her about her work without touching the subject of money at the onset.
2. Compliment her personality – This will work on women regardless of age, but it works particularly well on older women. Focus on her personality when giving compliments, but make it clear that you think she’s beautiful. How? Here’s what you tell her: “I’m sure you already know how beautiful you are, but what I really admire about you is your personality”